Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Trouble At the Inn


       So we have a little story advent we do at Christmas time. I love it. We sing a Christmas Hymn, read a scripture about the coming of the Savior and then we read a Christmas story each night. I love them all but my favorite every year is December 8th. Each year we read my favorite Christmas story of all time. I wanted to share it for anyone who may not have heard it before.

Trouble At the Inn

~By Dina Donahue~
For years now whenever Christmas pageants are talked about in a certain little town in the Midwest, someone is sure to mention the name of Wallace Purling. Wally’s performance in one annual production of the Nativity play has slipped into the realm of legend. But the old timers who were in the audience that night never tire of recalling exactly what happened.
Wally was nine that year and in the second grade, though he should have been in the fourth. Most people in town knew that he had difficulty in keeping up. He was big and clumsy, slow in movement and mind. Still, Wally was well liked by the other children in his class, all of whom were smaller than he, though the boys had trouble hiding their irritation if the uncoordinated Wally asked to play ball with them.
Most often they’d find a way to keep him off the field, but Wally would hang around anyway—not sulking, just hoping. He was always a helpful boy, a willing and smiling one, and the natural protector, paradoxically, of the underdog. Sometimes if the older boys chased the younger ones away, it would always be Wally who’d say, “Can’t they stay? They’re no bother.”
Wally fancied the idea of being a shepherd with a flute in the Christmas pageant that year, but the play’s director, Miss Lumbard, assigned him to a more important role. After all, she reasoned, the Innkeeper did not have too many lines, and Wally’s size would make his refusal of lodging to Joseph more forceful.
And so it happened that the usual large, partisan audience gathered for the town’s Yuletide extravaganza of the staffs and creches, of beards, crowns, halos and a whole stageful of squeaky voices. No one on stage or off was more caught up in the magic of the night than Wallace Purling. They said later that he stood in the wings and watched the performance with such fascination that from time to time Miss Lumbard had to make sure he didn’t wander onstage before his cue.
Then the time came when Joseph appeared, slowly, tenderly guiding Mary to the door of the inn. Joseph knocked hard on the wooden door set into the painted backdrop. Wally the Innkeeper was there, waiting. “What do you want?” Wally said, swinging the door open with a brusque gesture.
“We seek lodging.”
“Seek it elsewhere.” Wally looked straight ahead but spoke vigorously. “The inn is filled.”
“Sir, we have asked everywhere in vain. We have traveled far and are very weary.”
“There is no room in this inn for you.” Wally looked properly stern.
“Please, good innkeeper, this is my wife, Mary. She is heavy with child and needs a place to rest. Surely you must have some small corner for her. She is so tired.”
Now, for the first time, the Innkeeper relaxed his stiff stance and looked down at Mary. With that, there was a long pause, long enough to make the audience a bit tense with embarrassment.
“No! Begone!” the prompter whispered from the wings.
“No!” Wally repeated automatically. “Begone!”
Joseph sadly placed his arm around Mary, and Mary laid her head upon his shoulder, and the two of them started to move away. The Innkeeper did not return inside his inn, however. Wally stood there in the doorway, watching the forlorn couple. His mouth was open, his brow creased with concern, his eyes filling unmistakably with tears.
“Don’t go, Joseph,” Wally called out. “Bring Mary back.” And Wallace Purling’s face grew into a bright smile. “You can have my room.”
Some people in town thought that the pageant had been ruined. Yet there were others—many others—who considered it the most Christmas of all Christmas pageants they had ever seen.

Every time I read the words you can have my room I tear up. This year this story came right at the same time I taught a lesson on time management to the Mia Maids. As I thought of priorities in our lives and the inn keeper not having room, it made me think of myself as the inn keeper and the Savior not asking for a room but for my time. Do I let him in the way I should or do I say no room each day.

Thursday, December 6, 2012

It's a ...

So we found out some big news today....It's a girl! Yeah there was a part of me that wanted a friend for Nelson but then at the same time I think me and Travis are in heaven being surrounded all day by these sweet tender little girls. I mean what did I expect being married to Travis I don't think there's a guy out there who knows how to treat a girl better and that includes his 3 now four daughters. He's a total girl dad and I don't mean to toot my own horn but we make some beautiful sweet girls and I can't wait for May to get here to meet her!
I think the only one who was disappointed was Nelson and watch below for the proof.





Here's the link if the above video doesn't work.







Tuesday, December 4, 2012

18 months

My firend and neighbor Danna is possibly the most talented person I have met in my life. I mean the girls can do anything. Well the other day she got a new fancy camera lens and wanted to try it out so we went an took 18 month pictures of Emilyne. I thought Danna had met her hardest subject yet. If there is one thing about Emilyne she will do what she wants when she wants and only then. She will be born when she wants even though it was 6 weeks early. She will only cuddle if she’s in the mood (if Travis is around the chances of that mood being there increase by a ton). And she will smile and be happy only when she wants. We tried everything at first and nothing. Just a blank stare like are you joking me…you can act as goofy as you want but I’m just going to sit here and stare at you.






And then Emilyne decided that maybe she wanted to smile and it was the perfect reminder of life with Emilyne. She has by far been my grumpiest baby yet but oh when she smiles all those grumpy moments are beyond worth it.











Ginger Bread Houses

So what do Nelson and the gingerbread man have in common? They both share a mantra. Run run as fast as you can you can't catch me. Although I’m pretty sure no matter how fast the gingerbread man ran Nelson would catch him. Not only is the kid a mile a minute but he loves candy and we learned in making gingerbread houses this last week that he will not let a single piece go to waste and at times he considered candy on the house instead of his mouth a waste. His mentality was more of a one for you and two for me. He licked any excess frosting off the table and his hands. He and Travis were in charge of one house and Grace and Anna took the other. I remained a floater just going wherever I was needed. 



 So Grace and Anna went to a cat birthday party hence the ears.




 Do you think that waste not want not includes frosting?